Flylib.com
Face It. Recognizing and Conquering The Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict At Work
Face It. Recognizing and Conquering The Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict At Work
ISBN: 814408354
EAN: N/A
Year: 2002
Pages: 134
BUY ON AMAZON
Table of Contents
BackCover
Face It - Recognizing and Conquering the Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict at Work
Preface
Introduction
The Patterns
Insecurity
Coaching vs. Therapy
Business Pressures
From Fear to Freedom
Part I: The People in Your Neighborhood
Chapter 1: The Worrier
Why Worry?
Putting a Stop to Worry
Developing Practical Tools
Embracing the Fear
Enhancing Self-Esteem
If You Work with a Worrier
Chapter 2: The Controller
How Controllers Behave
The Problems Controllers Create
What s Behind Controlling?
Getting Control of Control
If You Work with a Controller
Chapter 3: The Fake
Bad Faith
The Truth Is, I May Not Measure Up
I Don t Deserve the Respect I Get
I Am Not of Value
The Active Deceiver
Partial Disclosure
Owning the Truth
Accepting Responsibility and Self-Forgiveness
The Bottom Line
The Basic Formula
If You Work with a Fake
Chapter 4: The Attention-Seeker
The Behaviors
The Problem
The Fix
If You Work with Attention-Seekers
Chapter 5: The Victim
Who Is the Victim?
Lies We Tell Ourselves
Owning Blame
The Victim Response
Victims Generalize
But It s True
Victim Thinking
Agency
Becoming More Agent-Like
Personalization and Self-Forgiveness
If You Work with a Victim
Chapter 6: The Prisoner
Prisoners of Anxiety
It s Often About Childhood
It s Not Always About Childhood
Getting Out of Jail
Getting Out - and Staying Out
If You Work with a Prisoner
Part II: Hell Is Not Just Other People
Chapter 7: The Transcendence Model
The Transcendence Model
Love, Death, and Robots
Rising Above
First Principles
A Better Way
Going Meta
Chapter 8: Here Comes the Judge
Making Judgments
Who Is the Judge?
The Experience of Self
Lighten Up
Where Self Comes From
Ego
Self as an Illusion
The Challenge
In Summary
Chapter 9: Our Shaky Foundations
Meaning
The Ultimate Paradox
Nothingness
Chapter 10: How We Judge
Meta-Level Judgments
Communication Sins
The Unspoken Gap Analysis
The Risks of Judging
Where Ego Steps In
Perceiving Angst
Avoiding Angst
We re All Fakes
Part III: Moving from Fear to Freedom
Chapter 11: What s Your Operating Strategy?
Detecting Your Operating Strategy
Defining Your Operating Strategy
Transcending Your Operating Strategy
Chapter 12: A Case of Disidentification
Emotions
Emotions Are Good
We Become Our Feelings
Isolating Your Feelings
Managing Your Feelings
Owning Your Feelings
Embracing Your Feelings
Chapter 13: There Goes the Judge
Managing the Judge
The Listening Game
Exiling the Judge
Gaining Proximity
Chapter 14: A Way of Being
Authenticity
Will
Will in Action
Commitment
Chapter 15: A Better Way
Full-Exposure Communication
Flow
Meditation
Joyful Egolessness
Bibliography
Index
Index_B-C
Index_D
Index_E
Index_F
Index_G-H
Index_I-J
Index_L-M
Index_N-P
Index_R-S
Index_T
Index_U-V
Index_W
Face It. Recognizing and Conquering The Hidden Fear That Drives All Conflict At Work
ISBN: 814408354
EAN: N/A
Year: 2002
Pages: 134
BUY ON AMAZON
MySQL Stored Procedure Programming
Using SQL in Stored Programming
Creating and Using Cursors
Introduction to Error Handling
Condition Handlers
Using MySQL with PHP Data Objects
High-Speed Signal Propagation[c] Advanced Black Magic
Single-Ended Circuits
UTP Noise and Interference
Daisy-Chain Clock Distribution
Power and Ground Resonance
Appendix E. erf( )
SQL Tips & Techniques (Miscellaneous)
Using SQL Data Definition Language (DDL) to Create Data Tables and Other Database Objects
Working with Functions, Parameters, and Data Types
Working with SQL JOIN Statements and Other Multiple-table Queries
Retrieving and Manipulating Data Through Cursors
Working with Data BLOBs and Text
Postfix: The Definitive Guide
Postfix Components
Simple Mailing Lists
Customized Restriction Classes
A.1. Postfix Parameter Reference
C.6. Common Problems
Ruby Cookbook (Cookbooks (OReilly))
Hashes
Comparing Two Files
Listing Methods Unique to an Object
Writing a SOAP Client
Documenting Your Application
Special Edition Using FileMaker 8
Working with Objects on a Layout
The Basic Mechanics of Exporting
XML Import: Understanding Web Services
Single User
Working with External Services
flylib.com © 2008-2017.
If you may any questions please contact us: flylib@qtcs.net
Privacy policy
This website uses cookies. Click
here
to find out more.
Accept cookies